What a sadist is ?
I’ve been thinking about what a **sadist** is, because I am a masochist. There exist already some articles about this subject, most of them try to fathom the topic psychologically. I just want to write from the point of view of a woman who does not want to explain, but wants to show the meaning for herself.
**What is sadism?** I begin to explain **sadism**, because it is the essence that gives the **sadist** his intense appeal. Sadism is the passion and irrepressible pleasure and joy to humiliate your partner, to cause her pain, to show her your own sexual power with every breath, to express her your own presence, to make her aware that only your own will counts that she is completely dominated and and that this is all verbal as well as physical. All this is sadism and a **masochist** woman loves it when a man lives for it.
**What is a sadist or sadist lover?** Now we are already in the middle of the subject, **what a sadist or a sadist** **lover is?** **A sadist or sadist lover** knows lustfully, skillfully, very dominantly to use his power. He has this particular aroma of lust, power, superiority, which makes a woman tremble with devotion, longing, desire, and surrender. He builds up in her an immense demand to let dominate herself, to serve him to his will, to give herself completely to his sexual pleasure, dominance and his sexual play, that this desire reaches a barely enduring intensity. He knows what he wants and gets it, he does not ask he just takes it.
**What is a sadomasochistic relationship?** To understand what a **sadist** is, I need to describe **what a sadomasochistic relationship is**. Today I am describing exclusively the sexual aspect. Every **sadist** finds his optimal partner in a **masochist**. This woman desires, implies, implores, pain, humiliation, being used because she wants it, and above all because it is the only way of salvation for her. In a **sadomasochistic relationship** between a **sadist** and a **masochist**, based on the sexual passion of the two, the **sadistic dominance** of the man and the **masochistic devotion** of the woman are lived out, according to the preferences of both. The woman longs for imploring, begging the dominance of the man. I will illustrate this by an example. In this example, I will also introduce extremely intense and amusing game styles of the **BDSM / SM**, which will be described in more detail in later articles. There are **tease & denial**, **bondage** and **orgasm control**.
The **sadis**t enters the room, the **masochist** is already naked and full of longing, after **bondage**, after stimulating and treating her private parts to the border of the orgasm and then to get him denied (**Tease & Denial**) the power of the **sadist** to decide if she gets no, one or many orgasms (**orgasm control**), after pain humiliation, to get used and humiliated by the **sadist**. The **sadist** knows it, this sexual power excites him, makes him even more powerful and the masochist is even more willing to get used by him. The **sadist** plays with her as he likes, without worrying about what she wants, as long as he wants it and puts him in a lusty intoxication until his complete fulfillment and satisfaction. She is surrendered to him, is reluctant after this treatment because it fulfills her and gives her the ultimate satisfaction.
Tag: BDSM
St. Andrew’s cross
**St. Andrew’s cross**
A special attraction is: To be completely naked with blindfolded eyes and to be visible to everyone on the cross! The sensitive spots are ready to be touched!
Whip, weights and brackets are used!
Touch with hands, mouth or instruments as agreed by the top and then by others! The partner is responsible!
As children we loved to play hide and seek and let ourselves be tied with ropes and most of us hoped to be unleashed again !!
Exactly that occurred to me again and thus for me the St. Andrew´s cross is the BDSM device of the month November. At these temperatures and in our latitudes something for the interior! A must-have among the bondage disciplines and expression of the bondage lifestyle.
I imagine the following nice equipment. A dark room, shackles on the 4 bars and of course people, naked people and everyone is allowed to feel one side or the other, may be top / sadist / gentleman or even just watch if he does not have enough courage or no need to surrender to his desire!
Double-Teaming a Woman with My Husband [FFM]
The night after a crazy MFMFM fivesome session with friends, my husband Ace had arranged an FMF threesome with Bonnie, a hot 40-year-old surfer chick from Jersey. The two had met at this high-end sex party we went to a few months back – while I was busy doing a breathplay + electroplay scene with my slave – but Bonnie was only an observer that night. When they finally fucked a few weeks ago, Ace said it was some of the best and roughest sex he’d had in a long time. So he was eager to meet up with her again, this time with me included.
We started with a delicious dinner in the East Village followed by an extremely weird but exquisitely well-acted off-off-Broadway theater performance. The play was not exactly the best choice for setting a sexy mood, but everyone was on board with what was going to happen afterwards, so we got into Bonnie’s car and drove up to our place without any uncomfortable wondering or negotiating.
[MF] The Darling slut of New Orleans
Apparently I have a type – kinky, bratty and slutty.
Back in February I knew I might be heading to New Orleans for a business trip. I starting looking around for someone fun to play with. I found Darling’s profile, and knew it was something special. She was a true slut and a lover of cum.
We started flirting online and she nearly shut me down. She had zero interest in flirting unless it was going to lead to something. Eventually I locked down a date for my work trip, and we heated up our exchange.
It got to the point that whenever I saw an alert saying, “Picture message from Darling,” I knew it was going to be her tits or ass or incredibly perfect pussy. I got so used to this that when she sent me a meme I chastised her for not also sending me a pic of her tits.
She remembered this, and purposely sent me another meme a couple days later. As a brat, she made sure to brag about breaking this “tit rule.” I almost let her off the hook, as it was a funny post about foisting. But she made it clear she needed to be punished for it, and I was flying in the next day.
[MF] Tearing Stockings, Light BDSM.
You’re clothes are removed as we kissed up and down each other’s bodies. Frantic lust and heavy breath as we push and pull each other all over the large bed. Your soft smooth skin exposed, I kiss it, lick up your side body to your neck. Finding your lips and kissing you deeply.
Naked but for your tights I smile down at you greedily and point to the the middle of the bed. I growl “All fours”, and comply with a wry knowing grin. I faintly hear “yes, Sir…” uttered under your breath.
My fingers dig into your cheeks. Alternating between a firm grasp of your tight, taut ass and massaging the tips into muscle. You can feel your the stockings begin to tear as my fingers spread, my hands flattening to cup and contract again squeeze hard.
Your spanking starts with a firm open slap dead centre of your right cheek. “Again?”you whisper. “Again what?” My voice soothingly smooth as I enjoy this moment immensely. “Again please, Sir?”
Slap! Same spot, same intensity. The firm spank elicits warm tingles. “Such a good girl asking politely.” Slap, slap, slap, slap, slap. My hand works it way counter clockwise around your right cheek, around the reddening spot left by the first two. Moans pass your lips and my cock hardens. “Please Sir, more please?”
Left cheek, 5 hard slaps in the centre, not the exact same spot, but overlapping in areas. Both hands immediately seize a cheek and embrace them. Forcing fingers into the thin material I tear into the hosiery exposing bare smooth skin. Leaning down I kiss each side again and again feeling the warm of your bottom on my lips. I maneuver my lips to your ear and sigh into you ear “Beg.”
“Please Sir! Oh fuck I want your to spank me, slap my ass. Am I a good girl for you Sir? Please….spank me and tell I’m your good girl…..”
My cock hardens and my desire to push it deep inside you is tremendous. “Oh FUCK Kitten! You’re inimitable, my splendid girl. Good doesn’t begin to express how wonderful you are.” The slaps start slow and soft, one side, the other side. Again and again as the intensity grows. Harder, faster, near centre. My hand impacts bare skin and nylon over and over as I push you to the pleasure/pain threshold. Right to the fucking brink. The sting peaks, your head begins to lift, your lips begin to part as you look back over your shoulder to watch a sadistic grin emerge from my features. Moaning louder, your marvellous red ass covered by shredded pantyhoe I moved around behind you and push my exceptionally stiff cock slowly deep inside your exceedingly wet pussy. Your slick dew encapsulates me as I tease the tip in and out. Then an inch repeatedly. In and out, more and more until I’m balls deep and pushing into your hot ass with my body. You can feel every inch pull slowly out of you until the tip is ever so slightly parting you for the next thrust, our mutual wetness trickles down your lips to your clit and thighs.
SLAP! Slap, slap, slap. “Come now” I order pushing deep inside you again and again hard and fast. You pulse around me. Arms buckle, face buries in the bed. Moaning “yessssss, fuckkkkkk, mmmmmmmmmmm, ohhhhhhh”
I love it, your moans take me to the edge as mush as the feeling of your tight wet pussy and the vision of your stellar ass in the air before me for my taking. “Cum with me!” I order again, knowing you’re mid orgasm. I feel your excitement redouble as my cock throbs plunged deep and rock hard as I climax with you shooting hot cum into you over and over as an intense orgasm over comes me “FUCKKKKK KITTENNNNNNN!!”
We collapse in a heaving, hot mess.
Erotic Literature/Story Commissions Are Open!
Hello! I am Amatheia, and I am an author. I love doing stories about NSFW type things, including BDSM or just plain vanilla and romance.
I charge 10$ per page (or per four paragraphs) and all payments are made via PayPal.
I will do any range of erotic writing, except anything doing with rape, molestation or pedophilia. (Unless it is part of someones past and is not used for pleasure purposes).
All writing will be done with proper grammar and spelling, and will always be edited and revised before the final work is completed. It can be sent to you via Email, private messaging or through mail, however if shipped physically, there will be a shipping fee.
I will do any ship writing for all you fandom members out there as well!
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“Breaking Lilly” [BDSM] [Mdom] (First time writing erotic stories looking for feed back.)
There’s nothing better than breaking a brat. When the initial defiance turns to submission after the struggle it’s a feeling unmatched by anything. That’s why I decided to meet up with this woman, a woman named Lilly.
We first started chatting online, we meet on a BDSM discord server. She was popular there and liked to be a tease to the various users. She would post selfies of herself in really skimpy clothing but would never post full nudes, She’d take pics of herself hand braing when posting pictures of her tits or she would have her panties on when posting her ass. Honestly, I think the only reason she wanted to meet up was that we lived in the same city and no one else did.
Obviously, she was the queen of the server. Her fire red hair, pale skin and a voluptuous figure that had the right amount of thickness while still maintaining an hourglass shape. The way her tits looked squished against her arm in here selfies resembled a dam that was barely holding back its reservoir with her breast spilling over her forearm and her panties barely covering her ass in her pics leaving the bottom half of her cheeks to hang out but never revealing the whole cheeks.
Drunk [F]ucking [M]y Married Coworker
Just stopping by to tell a fun story about work from a few weeks ago.
TL;DR I hooked up and came inside of my 50-year-old, married, co-worker in the back of her family SUV.
A little about me: 30, 6’2”, 205, short black hair, strong hands.
So there’s this gal I work with, Tris (short for Tristan). We’ve been working together for about four years now. Tris isn’t my ideal type, but she she’s cute: pushing 50, 5’4”, 115, friendly, smart, quick-witted, blonde, straight hair to her shoulders. Tris isn’t curvy by any means, but she’s tight all around. She only a small B-cup, 32-26-28. But she’s got the energy and swagger about her. She doesn’t give a shit what you think about her or her work. She can be difficult to get along with sometimes but she always gets the job done and she does it well. Outside of work, she is married with two kids. Tris is normally very personal, every once in a while, showing pictures of her kids. But she’s not on any social media and there was a rumor going around that she was separated from her husband.
First Threesome Success! [MFM]
After a wild ight of partying and downing tequila like there’s no tomorrow, things started to get a little frisky downstairs. First I (M) witnessed my girlfriend (F) drunkenly make out with her friends (FFF) and feel up on each other. My best friend (M) was with me during all of this and we both agreed that it was INSANELY hot. One thing led to another and the idea of an orgy came up (MMFFFF) but this got shut down due to puking ensuing after shot # whatever…
Fast forward to Father’s Day morning, we are all in bed talking of having an actual orgy party, so when that happens I’ll fill you all in. ;) I leave to drive my friend home and we smoke and talk about last night when the mention of my girlfriend and I’s fantasy for a three-way. At first I wasn’t sure if I wanted it to be my best friend to be the one fucking my girlfriend. A little while later, he was talking about his fetishes and noticed how similar they were to my girlfriends. After hearing this I was interested in recruiting him because I am non-monagamistic, and though it sounded hot thinking of them fulfilling their fantasies, but more her than him. With this information, I tell him that her and I would talk about it and let him know.
I get to her house and tell her about the idea. She was *very* intrigued, but was worried about him being my best friend and the sex getting in the way. Also that if I didn’t like it, it would ruin the relationship, but I have fantasized about (MFM) threesomes prior to this so I was down for it. After convincing her that I was okay with it, we agreed to do it but she was still a little shaky on the idea of it. To make sure she wouldn’t back out of it, I suggested that we do it that day in a few hours. She said okay. I call my friend and sure enough we agree that at 4:30 was the time the fun would start.
We rush to my home to get lube, handcuffs, and a blindfold. She wore a very sexy piece of lingerie and we head over to his house. After a few shots, I tell him to go wait in the other room while I got her ready. After blindfolding and handcuffing her, I go grab my friend and the fun begins…
I start by eating her pussy and ass while my friend gets warmed up. She moans as my tongue goes back and forth between both holes and I start to finger her slowly. Her cum is dripping from her pussy because she was so wet in anticipation. A short while later, I’m primed and ready and switch spots with my friend. I flip her to where she’s on her back and start to throat fuck her while she is getting eaten out and fingered by my friend. She’s moaning and choking as my cock fills her throat and drool is dripping from my cock as I pull it out to hear her moaning.
My friend loved fingering her and when I looked down he had four fingers inside of her and her pelvis was grinding and gyrating from the pleasure. This continues for about 10 minutes and then I’m ready to plunge my cock deep into her. We switch positions and I uncuff her and take her blindfold off and she gets on her stomach. She sees his cock and starts to suck him dry. I can feel her other lips wrap around my cock and shudder from the feeling. I fucked her vigerously and ended up pushing her head forward so she would gag on his dick and come down on my cock in an alternating system of pleasure. After this I get up because I’m ready to bust and shoot long strings across her back.
Chained to the ground [BDSM][oral][MF]
She finds herself tied. She’s standing, with cuffs that are chained to the ground. She is completely naked, except for a blindfold. The air is slightly cold, and there is some scent in the air. She hears a door open behind her. Someone walks to her and stops very close to her. They don’t say anything, and neither does she, cause she knows better. She feels them approaching, smelling her hair.