At the beginning of our relationship I was very against any anal play. I had always heard terrible things about it, and had witnessed first hand the stigma against the people that enjoyed it.
My partner played it really smart, he asked me in the ‘getting to know each other’ part, and since my response was negative he didn’t push the subject for a long time. He has now confessed that he’s fantasized with my ass this whole time, from when he first had me doggy style and could get a good look at my pink little hole. Anyway, a couple of years into the relationship he started casually bringing it up, we’ve always had an amazing communication, and have never been shy to discuss our sex life. But it was always like ‘I want to fuck your ass, but I want you to love it’ , and my response would be something like ‘I don’t think I can like that’, he’d always end it with a form of ‘Someday I’ll make u like it’.