I was a very sexually reserved lady until I hit my early to mid 30s. I was a virgin until 18 and my husband was only my second sexual partner. Around 32 years old I started masturbating thinking about kinky friskier sex. I started fantasizing about gang bangs, rape fantasies etc. I ask my husband to talk to me about my fantasies. His stories were very erotic, he had me having sex with an entire baseball team, football team etc. I loved his stories, they would always end with an awesome orgasm.
Most men hit their sexual peak in their late teens to early 20s, while women reach their sexual prime in their mid-30s to mid-40s. In most relationships it’s the man that asks for an open relationship. We were different, I wanted the multiple partners. Even though my husband is awesome it was very hard for me to ask him, it ended up being very easy because my husband already knew because the fantasies we would discuss. I told him I desperately wanted frisky sex with other men and I wanted to experience “different sizes” so my husband let me go find both. BTW “size does matter”, girth is more important than length! LOL! I also had a couple of men that were the size of a forearm, these were kinky but way overrated.