I’ve been married for 4 years now, happily. She’s my best friend, but the sex has been on the weaker end the past couple of years. Sometimes we go a month without sex. And though I’m not outwardly super horny or anything, I do have my needs! This all comes to a head when I had to go to Vegas for a conference. Before that I had been experimenting (when my wife would leave the house for long enough) with an Aneros, working myself to prostate orgasm — I finally got to a handsfree wet orgasm. So I packed it up and went to Vegas just thinking I would have more time to practice with it – I have yet to get to a super O.
My first night there I was out of my mind horny that out of desperation I downloaded several fling apps – Tinder, etc. Couldn’t find anybody close by or generally anybody to sext with quickly so as a last ditch effort, I downloaded grindr. And boy oh boy, there were so many options. I ended up matching with someone in the same hotel, I worked up my nerve and walked to their hotel room.