I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for a year or so using an Aneros. I have always been able to get some fantastic sensations with it, and very satisfying “conventional” orgasms, but had never managed the “holy grail” of the hands-free prostate orgasm. I came close a few times, but was never able to get “over the edge” without penile stimulation.
Well, it so happens that my family is away this week, and I’ve got the house to myself. I decided to treat myself to a new toy, so went to a local sex toy shop to see if I could find something that’d help me get to the next level. I wanted something that was a bit more girthy, had some battery-powered stimulation and wouldn’t break the bank. I settled on a [Nexus Sparta](http://old.nexusrange.com/product/sparta) that they had on sale. At the sale-price of $75, this was the most I’ve ever spent on a sex toy, but I figured “hey, I’m worth it”. The Sparta doesn’t have any vibration (well, a little from the motor), its main feature is a little “finger” inside the tip that strokes in a “come hither” motion. It’s got 3 different speeds, and two different stop-start type patterns.