I've posted a few of my exploits which can be seen in my history. If you read those you will see I have a thing for the swinger lifestyle and in particular three- and moresomes.
I'm still experimenting and although I have a few experiences under my belt I'm nervous about all this and frankly a bit shy still. However, on this night just a few weeks ago I built up the courage to check out a club in Amsterdam called Sameplace.
Sameplace is like a sexy bar. They serve drinks around a big bar area that takes up half of the place. There is a dancing area with poles and soft cushion-like beds. The basement contains a proper sex dungeon with a couple playrooms, sex swings, etc.
I showed up around 10pm on particular Thursday and its full but quiet. Probably nearly 50/50 men and women and all ages represented. A few couples are dancing and one older couple is already playing a bit at the bar. She discreetly has him unzipped and is jerking him off right there at the bar. I relax, I've found my happy place. :)