After our first experience at a swinger club Evan and I really started to explore that lifestyle a lot more. The energy, the eroticism, letting go of all inhibitions really made us feel like we wanted more. He and I were both extremely sexual, totally open, and we wanted to explore more in our sexuality. We talked a lot about it. We had no real limits. We were of the mind set that we would let the energy and circumstances lead the adventure and just let ourselves go in the moments.
For the next 6 months we went out regularly to swingers clubs, spas, events, and we were meeting great people and making great friends. We were maintaining our distant approach to having sex with others. Had not actually swapped with anyone. But loved being there. Exploring our own sexuality together. Giving anyone that wanted to watch us an amazing show. But the extent of our involvement with others was limited to me and the other woman kissing, lightly touching each other. It was limited. But it was actually extremely rewarding and satisfied Evan and I. Every experience led to more amazing sex between each other and left us wanting more. But we just had not connected with the right couple For us yet.