As always, names have been changed to protect the not-so-innocent.
TL;DR I met a woman through a “conventional” internet dating site, and we had a very interesting night of sex, in what turned out to be a one-night stand.
I went through this phase, when I hit 30, where I decided to find FWB types of relationships through regular/conventional internet dating sites. Previously I’d tried one of the major “adult” dating sites (swingers, casual sex, etc) and the action for me there was absolutely zilch. So I figured, “what the heck,” and decided to see if I could identify women on a conventional dating site who were looking for FWB and more. Ideally I wanted to find someone that I could swing with, but first things first. As an aside, I was very interested in swinging at that time. I’m still into extracurriculars now, as you’ve possibly seen in stuff that I’ve posted here before, but I’m not so much into the *lifestyle* aspect of adult activities anymore.