I would have been 25 at the time, quite skinny, clean shaven with long curly hair. We met on Adult Friend Finder – is that still a thing? – and I had a very bi profile looking for MF couples I could be pals with. There was some success on that front but those are stories for another day.
She was a lot taller, a little older and definitely more experienced than me. She started me off by reading her erotica – there was one particularly vivid one about facesitting and pussy worship that I still think about sometimes. I mean, I think about everything about her a lot but that one bubbles up from time to time and surprises me.
She encouraged me to write erotica of my own and to send it to her so she could get a sense of my fantasies. I had never done this before so had to think long and hard about what I felt was hot and what the gist of my daydreams were. She gave a pretty strict deadline for them and became angry when they came a little later than set – I didn’t realise that was all part of the game.