I only recently found this subreddit, and after reading some of the stories of people’s experiences, I figured I’d add mine to the mix (this was previously posted on r/jobuds). Sorry for this wall of text, but keep in mind, this happened back in The Olden Days. There was no internet porn! Because there was no internet! If you wanted porn, you had to watch the scrambled cable channels in the hope of a couple seconds of boob or find your dad’s single issue of Playboy in the bottom of his dresser drawer under the Hai Karate. Basically, good spank material was hard to come by. I had to make up for it with a good imagination.
Anyhow, my first sexual experience of any kind involved me and my best friend Matt. We had been friends since we were little, going to school together and hanging out on weekends. Sleepovers were common, just the two of us when we were younger, then as groups when we started staying up all night playing Dungeons and Dragons. Yes, we were nerds. Big time. None of our group had ever had girlfriends and most weren’t very athletic. If we weren’t playing D&D, we were quoting Monty Python and talking about the hot girls we knew, but never dated. But nobody every copped to beating off. It just wasn’t discussed back then.