I recently travelled across the country for work and was in the mood to meet a guy and suck his dick. I downloaded Grindr expecting it to be pretty easy to find someone, but it was surprisingly difficult. On my second day there I was chatting with a guy there for a conference and was staying at a fancy hotel. He told me he was busy with work, but might have time the next evening. I kept chatting with other guys, still with no luck. But the idea of pleasing an older businessman in his hotel stuck in the back of my mind, and was turning me on.
We kept chatting the next day and made tentative plans for later that night. I told him two things I was looking for. I wanted it to feel spontaneous. For example, if we were just in his hotel room, I wanted him to “make a move” and it feel natural, rather than just acting like that was the reason I was there, and starting as soon as I walked in. If that makes sense. I have also never fully swallowed a load. I’ve always wanted to, but in the end just got nervous and told them to cum on me. I told him I wanted to finally try this. He was supportive, and told me he’d be up for whatever, and if I changed my mind, that was okay too.