Yes, that’s right. I am doing what I never wanted to have to do. I am spelling it all out for you because apparently I cannot find what I am looking for without doing so. So please read carefully =]
This is what makes me mad:
“Dominants” who claim online, and even in person, to have so much experience in their trade, and then when it comes down to an actual scene or session, I find that they know close to nothing.
“Dominants” who act like timid kittens when I bring out my bag of toys. Please, don’t glance at the toys, blush, and then put them in the corner, never to use them on me or for your own benefit. I brought them for a reason! And chances are that if I have a particular toy, then I am probably into that sort of play.
“Dominants” who want or need me to write them a script/playwrite for a session. I am a sexual submissive. In a scene or approaching a scene, I cannot and will not tell you what to do… That would just be very unnatural for me. And besides… I do love that nervous anticipation of not knowing what is coming. Plus, planning it out ahead of time (or in the moment, as an experienced and/or natural Dominant should be able to) is your job anyways. My job is to serve, obey and please.