(Edited to make a couple of privacy-related exclusions, managed to delete the post from gonewildstories and post instead on my profile… Thank you for bearing with my Reddit illiteracy)
Like many of my other stories, this one began online. More specifically, on r4r (although it might have been RAOBJ, I’m not sure). I was in my mid-20s and curious about sexual submission. I loved getting off to rough porn, but I have always been too shy to tell my partners.
I asked for it on Reddit — kind of. I did not want to put myself in extreme danger, but I wanted to hint that I was not looking for something vanilla. A guy around my age responded and we hit it off immediately. There was one caveat: he lived hours away from me.
Why did he even reply? I was annoyed, but the conversation was enticing. Over the course of a couple of weeks, we discussed our kinks, and we told each other the things we would do if we ever met in person. If ever.