I had been dating my girlfriend for a little over two years and Chelsea was in this phase where she wanted to check off things on her bucket-list before we tied the knot. I was uncomfortable with the idea of a threesome from the start but she talked me into it eventually. Sharing my girl with another guy woke the caveman instinct within me, so inviting another guy into this was out. Chelsea was excited our first time was a female, mostly because it was actually happening over the sex of the partner. Things took a turn when choosing a lover that fit “us”. It was proving to be harder than we thought. We tried forums, fet-life, on-line ads and local college bars with little luck.
Things were looking bleak as we hit our 2-month mark of searching when Chelsea asked, “What about your ex Amy?”. Amy and I were never a couple and we didn’t date. We were FWB and agreed to end things mutually when I met Chelsea. I had mentioned that Amy was the one most open to new ideas from my past lovers and I found her contact via email (number had deleted from my phone) and it took her a while to reply. I wasn’t exactly sure how to bring up the topic of a threesome with her so we danced around the subject for a while. When I did, Amy was leery but kept talking.