You can skip to the juicy stuff where I have it marked but as always, context helps. Also, this took place years ago and, while I have a good memory, some parts are foggy. I have filled in those parts as best as I can.
So some context, all with madeup names of course. Julia and I dated way back in early high school. We never had sex but we got as far as oral. She moved to the other side of the country after her dad got a new job and we tried the whole long distance thing for a little while without much success. We broke up and tried to remain friends, but I had such a difficult time with the breakup that I had to remove her from my life completely. We moved on, dated other people, went to college, got careers, etc.
Years went by and one day, I received a forwarded email from one of my old accounts. It was from Julia. She said that she was in the city that we grew up in for a work conference and wanted to know if I wanted to catch up, assuming I still lived in the area and if I even still checked the email address she sent the message to. I responded, we exchanged numbers, and we set a date for a kickass coffee shop I thought she might like.