I entered college as an 18 year old freshman like the majority of people do. State school, known as somewhat of a party school for being a little on the small side, so I was excited as you can imagine. I had a few friends already at the same university so I guess you could say I already had the “in” with a group of friends who had set up a pretty solid party crowd for most weekends (and week nights).
Before I get too far, I guess I should explain why I was a virgin in college (not that there’s anything wrong with that, but in today’s society it is extremely stigmatized to be a virgin in college).
All throughout high school, I was so incredibly hooked on trying to convince my best girl friend to date me. We had a phenomenal friendship, pretty much from 6th grade through graduation and even into college for a while. I had always had feelings for her but she never reciprocated those feelings, which is totally fine. I just never gave up no matter how many times it didn’t go my way. It never really affected our friendship at all, and I can’t say it’s totally because I was being drug along hopelessly. She had her fair share of times when she would kiss me,seriously flirt with me, and do everything else to make you think a girl would like you. Unfortunately it never worked out and I was left heading to college without much sexual experience to speak of, so I was a little self-conscious about it.