**Long slow build up but the pay off is worth it, so please stick with me.**
I’ve been with my girlfriend for over two years now and she is a lovely woman. We get on well and she has a great personality but if I’m honest, her body doesn’t drive me mad with lust. She’s cool and we have okay sex but she’s overweight and it is more comfortable affectionate sex rather than dick stiffening, lust crazed sex. I enjoy the physical intimacy but it doesn’t excite me, if you know what I mean. I guess if I look at it truthfully, this seems to have been something that I’ve had with all of my significant others.
They’ve been good, fun women but they have been overweight and never been what I would call sexy. I’ve never been able to pick one up because she was so slim and walk around a room shagging them or look at them when they have got ready for a night out and thought ‘Wow, she’s a stunner, how did I manage to get that?’ When I see them naked, I’m not sexually excited and instead have a feeling that they are cute or that they are nice but never that they are sexy. I’m also a bona fide big boob guy and whilst one or two fleeting sexual encounters have had big boobs, none of my significant others have.