My sex life with my wife had become almost non-existent and over time my fantasies had drifted to her being with another man to the point where that’s all I could think of. Our relationship was otherwise great but the few times I’d hinted about her being with someone else she’d dismissed it. I decided I was going to make it happen on my own.
I reached out to one of her male friends in her running group and he and I met for lunch. I asked him not to mention it to her and he was obviously confused but agreed. I had intended to ease in to the conversation, but once he and I were seated at the restaurant I just spilled my guts. He was a bit taken aback and hesitant. He reminded me that he was married and faithful to his wife but I pushed and asked him to flirt with her a little and see what happened. He finally agreed and promised to text me after their next run.