Over the weekend, I (husband) had my first solo play experience. Its something my wife and I had talked about extensively to determine our comfort level. Truth be told, she was probably more comfortable with the idea of it than I was. There was a couple we’ve had several play dates with that we had great chemistry with. That couple had an open relationship where they each dated other people and it provided a great opportunity for us to dip our toes in the water of solo play with my wife out of town on a girls trip. The other husband and wife have their own dynamic going on that I don’t think it’s my place to dive into here but suffice to say it was okay with me going over to see her 1-on-1.
I reached out to the other wife who we’ll call K and she was similarly excited at the idea of having a date. The time got moved around a few times with her busy schedule but eventually landed on me going over to her place last Saturday evening. I spoke with my wife and set some ground rules including her not wanting me to stay the night, which I was fine with.