My wife [35F] recently matched on Tinder with a cute female bartender that works in a hip spot downtown. She’d matched with plenty of women over the last year or so, but not much ever happened with it. She’s really busy with work and with our kids, so she doesn’t have a ton of time to spend chatting with strangers on dating apps.
But, the bartender was in a similar situation. Recently out of a relationship, has a kid, and not a ton of time for anything but a casual friendship…and more if it felt right.
So, once they matched, they started chatting quite a bit, which led to texting, and within just a few days, my wife told me she’d been invited to the downtown spot for a cocktail tasting on a random Wednesday night.
To be clear, I’ve given my wife the full green light to “cheat” on me with women anytime she wants, as long as she tells me about it while we’re fucking. In my youth, I was definitely an insecure, overly jealous type, but as I’ve gotten older and wiser, I want my wife to experience everything this life has to offer. Trust me when I say, it’s taken our already amazing sex life to an entirely new level.