My wife and I have been married for eight years now. It is the second marriage for both of us. Her first marriage was when she was 20 years old to a college friend. That lasted 10 years until she divorced and ten spent two years singe until; she met me. We dated for two years before we tied the knot. She is 42 now. I am 54. I was married for 15 years and was single for 5 before meeting her.
When we were dating and for the first two years we were married she rarely talked abut former lovers, and was even more secretive about her ex. She only ever spoke of a few things regarding him. She said they grew apart but were still friendly. That he never went down on her once in all the years they were together. And that all things considered, I was a better lover. But the information about him changed quickly in our second year of marriage. She had gotten a wedding invitation to a friend and would out her ex was going to attend as well. She decided to give me some more info so I would not be shocked once we met in person.