My wife and I have always talked about exploring our sexual boundaries – playing with other people, exhibitionism, sharing our own videos/pictures, etc. But for all the talk, it’s been difficult to find a way to act on it. Sure, you could probably argue we hadn’t *really* tried to push the envelope and you’d be right, but for whatever combo of reasons, most of our truly kinky fantasies have stayed fantasies. We’re both professionals with good jobs and reputations to match. And of our good friends who we’ve considered “would we swing/swap with them?”, usually one of the two partners is very, very much not into the idea. So we settled on “maybe on a vacation sometime, with strangers” and put the idea on the shelf.
Well, when one of your best friends finally ditches his nice bit very boring girlfriend of 6 years, a whole new set of possibilities opens up. That’s not to say any of it was in the plans immediately – in fact the opposite. My wife, Kayla, and I immediately invited Jason to come visit us half way across the country for a week, but we also talked between ourselves and decided we couldn’t unring that bell if something happened, so we’d avoid a threesome for now.