A few years back after my wife and I had our first child our sex life began to suffer. Our daughter was premature which meant getting up and feeding her every 2 hours, every single night. We were putting ourselves through the ringer and when we had down time there was just no way we wanted to have some “up and down” time. My wife was also feeling insecure about her body and for the first time in our relationship she didn’t like to be naked around me. I tried to reassure her that she was beautiful and I still found her very attractive but it was hurdle she had to get over herself. One day I got an idea and it was a great idea.
I took my daughter to my parents so they could babysit. I picked up some good wine and made dinner and after we were nice and relaxed I led my wife to our bedroom with her stalling all the way. Until she saw the items I had laid out on the bed, then the questions started. I had 3 of my ties and an mp3 player and earbuds sitting on the bed. I knew she had been horny lately and had been using her toy a lot, so I told her I would be her toy. She could tie me up with 2 of ties, use the other to blindfold me so she didn’t have to feel self conscious, and put my earbuds in so I couldn’t hear anything. She bit her lip as if she really had to think about it. Then came the mischievous smile.