I’ve been a lurker on this sub for some time and absolutely love all the stories here. This is probably one of my favourite experiences of mine so thought I’d share as well :) Hope you guys like it!
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When I was a student at university, I did a semester abroad in Berlin. Up until this point, I had only slept with two guys – one who was my ex-boyfriend and to whom I had lost my virginity, and second, a friend of mine during a drunken affair. I was surprised with the brazen and open sexuality I was seeing in Berlin. I had literally seen men dressed up in those leather leashes just roaming on the streets; a woman giving a man a blowjob behind a tree; and so much more. Now I’m from an Indian background where boys and sexuality is just not a topic that is addressed. My family is not conservative in any way – they know I drink, party, smoke, but somehow the topic of dating and especially sex is just completely ignored, meaning I had reached university a virgin until I lost it to my (secret) white boyfriend.