I was born with a very mild form of vaginal hypoplasia.
This birth defect can cause anything from being VERY tight to not having a vagina at all. Thankfully, I am the former. Life is fairly normal for me, all except for sex being incredibly difficult. Because of this, I am still a virgin. Or at least, I was up until very recently.
I’ve had several relationships end because I was simply incapable of having sex with them. I know that relationships should be more than sex, but it’s definitely a big part of them depending on the person. And I WANT to have sex. I just.. can’t. I’ve spent many nights naked, crying in bed because I couldn’t do the one thing that comes easily to most women.
Enough self loathing. On to the good part!
So I’ve been working in a small office for about a year and a half now. Roughly a month ago, we hired a new guy in the IT department. Let’s call him Steve.