So, first, some background. My wife and I have known each other for 7 years. We’ve been dating for 5, married for 3 and have been in an open marriage/polygamous/swinging for about a year and a half now. We still have sex with each other and love each other very much. But sometimes, we desire different things from different people. If you want to learn more about that, message me. I’m always happy to share.
Last weekend was our three year anniversary. In the past, we’ve taken trips and just spent time together hanging out. With COVID-19 around, trips were out of the question. But, we had some friends coming into town, and figured that would be a fun weekend.
About a week before, my wife said she wanted to surprise me early with an anniversary gift. She hands me a folder and it’s a series of texts from her friends: Cassie and Sara and their significant others, Matt and Tom. It’s a group text about three pages long detailing my wife’s request for a couples swinging party while they’re in town. It details our relationship, where we’re coming from, our boundaries we’ve set with each other, etc. And it goes on as she convinces and educates them on what she envisions it to look like.