(this is my first story here, so go easy on me!)
I was 19 when I figured out that I was an exhibitionist. This was years ago, before the rise of cameraphones, so my escapades were limited to sneaky, semi-public sex. Looking backwards, I know that I would have come to the same conclusion regardless, but the inspiration for my enjoyment of this particular thrill came at the hands (literally) of someone else.
I met him on Craigslist, of all places. Not the last time I’d find someone on that cesspool, but this may have been the first one I actually met. He was much older than me, 24, with a job and an apartment, and a car of his own. I was in college, looking for someone to take me out to dinner while I was home for the summer, and maybe to expand my not-very-experienced horizons.
I thought that perhaps he was too old for me, and that we’d have little in common, but we both liked similar books, so I thought it was worth a late-night coffee date. Our conversations- via email, of course- had veered into naughty territory but nothing too explicit. I was honest and told him I’d only been with a handful of partners, all in relationships, and was looking to try new things. He said he wanted casual FWB type of arrangements, wasn’t looking for a girlfriend, and really enjoyed oral sex, both giving and getting.