As the title says, I’m a disabled male in my early 30s and things have recently started to happen with my caregiver, who is in her mid-20s and married with a kid. I still can’t believe these things are happening, and to maintain her privacy, I’m using this new account where I’ll be sharing my experiences. Quick note: my caregiver knows I’m sharing some details, but read on for more…
Anyway, this all started around 3 months ago. The state of California basically pays for a caregiver to look after me since I’m permanently disabled… Basically quadriplegic for all intents and purposes (muscle atrophy throughout my whole body). I put up an advertisement back then, and to my delight, an actual nurse (from Mexico) applied for the position. I was a bit skeptic at first because I’ve always had male caregivers, and on top of being female (I’m a bit heavy, so I wasn’t sure she could handle me), she’s quite young and cute.
After our initial interview, she reassured me she had experience with all types of patients and she would have no problem working with me. I thought, “fuck it, what do I have to lose?” and took the plunge.