When I imagined how the first meeting with my new Dom would go, I never considered I would spend time “watching” American Ninja Warrior while blindfolded and naked, with pussy juice still drying on my face.
I should rewind just a bit. I had been single for about 6 months, after a 16 year vanilla trending to celibate relationship with my now ex-husband. I spent the first few months just getting my sexual footing back, following my own rules to say yes to anything that seemed safe. I had lots of fun experiences that will be the subject of other stories, I’m sure.
My life before marriage had been kinky, I had been involved with BDSM since my teens. I had interviewed with Dom/mes but never found the right fit. In the mid-to-late 90s living in a fly-over state, it was hard to find the scene. But FetLife came about while I was married, and the joys of the internet helped my single self find exactly what I had been denied in previous decades.