I travel a lot for work. This puts in me in positions to meet women in hotel bars, on Reddit, and, of course, on Tinder.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I have a lot of boring times on Tinder. If I’m in a town for 4 days, I may only match with 6-8 women in that time, and half of them won’t reply to the first message. But about half of my trips end up with a fun meeting.
This past trip I match with a woman around my age (I’m 44) and we started talking. I keep it very polite in the beginning, but slowly feel out how flirty I can be. She seemed to warm to the sex talk, and we talked about meeting but she wasn’t going to be able meet me this time that I’m in town. But she was clear that we could definitely go for a drink next time I’m in town. I thought that was it. This was now my last night in town and she was only woman I was actually talking to. None of my other matches were chatting.