I have been asked this question several times and I always side stepped it like a polished politician. Then one night after several glasses of wine and chatting on an adult anonymous site I disclosed MY SECRET privately to a fellow late night chatter and it felt so good. The weight I had carried was lifted so I thought I would finally share in a post. Now I am not good at writing or story telling so don’t be critical:
I was at my girlfriends house warming party, she was one of my best friends who I met through my husband, I was there with one of my other gf’s I work with. My husband had stayed home to babysit as we often rotate going out with our friends. The party had been going on for several hours and everyone was having fun and just bouncing around talking. One of my other Co-workers had arrived,his name was Carlos, and he had been working at our job for about 2 months. In that short time he had made his rounds with several of the girls in the office. He was arrogant and I always associated it with his age,he was 23 years old, and I never understood how these other girls always seem so memorized by him. He was young and fit but so cocky and full of himself so when talking with one of my Gf’s and finding out she too had hooked up with him I was shocked. Well he eventually started to always flirt with me and I always shot him down and reminded him that I was quite happy being married the last 15 years and he had no chance. He soon backed off but would always comment in passing that he was going to ,”Tap this married ass” and I would love it. It soon just became part of everyday office banter.