I [38F] have been FWB with this guy, M [36M] for a few years and we have a pretty good vibe. When we’re not trading filthy texts and snaps, we have pretty dark sarcastic banter and exchange food pics and recommendations. He’s a dark soul, self confessed “dead inside” but actually he’s quite sweet with me.
Over these years, M has gradually trained me to be okay with butt play. Initially when we met, I was super shy about having anything to do with any hint of butt play, but over time M would touch me lightly on the asshole with his finger during foreplay, and when he was going down on me and eating out my pussy, his licks would get lower.
Eventually M started to ease one finger into me while eating out my pussy, or rimming me while going down on me, and the way that man enjoyed that, like _really_ enjoyed it, turned me on so much that I started to enjoy it too.