I don’t really know how to use Reddit properly so I’m not sure how to link to the first part of this story, but basically a few months ago I (18m) had this brief ongoing thing with an older dude at my local pool (feel free to ask for details I guess). I’d recommend going back to read that story because I don’t think this will really make sense otherwise.
Anyway not long after I made that first post my friend’s dad messaged me on Facebook telling me it was good to see me and asking how I was and stuff. I let him know how awkward that whole situation made me feel and he sorta made a comment about how my friend (his son) can never find out about what we did. Obviously I agreed because a. I didn’t want to lose a pretty good friend and b. I’m not even out of the closet yet.
That was sorta it for a little bit, but after maybe a few hours of no chatting he messaged again saying how the fact that he knows who I am now kinda turns him on because he’s only ever done stuff with guys anonymously. I sorta admitted that it also turned me on a little bit (don’t judge me lmao) and then he started asking if I’d be interested in meeting up again at some point.