It’s been a while since I posted anything here, so I figured I would give you an update. As some of you have asked, and I’m sure a few figured out on your own, the asexual girlfriend in a lot of my posts off of this sub is in fact Rey. I’ve always kept my profile open because I felt that context and learning about an author increases the value of the story, and some of you kindly contacted me inquiring about the situation.
While our sex life was amazing in the beginning, thus the stories, she slowly slipped into lower and lower sex drives. At this point, she virtually never wants any kind of sex and will go out of her way to avoid it.
When I started writing on here, the last time we’d had sex was August. That, and the last few times we’d had sex before it (which takes us back into 2014) were “just hurry up and get it over with” sex. As of now, the only time we’ve had sex since last August was at a convention about two months ago. That was also “hurry and finish” sex, done more out of tradition than any sense of wanting it, and genuinely seemed physically uncomfortable for her. That had the terrible effects of both whetting my pallet and making me relive sexual feelings, making me absolutely crave sex again, and solidified that sex with Rey will probably never be downright enjoyable again.