A few years ago, I became aware that some people could have non conventional orgasms with various body parts. I had known about hands free “clench” orgasms for years but nipplegasms, pressure point orgasms, and suspension and resistance orgasms were a surprise. I read about nipplegasms, started to play with the idea, and then discovered that my long time partner could have nipplegasms, footgasms and backgasms, but that other lovers were unable to orgasm with the same technique.
it seems pretty clear that women have a range of orgasmic response. I had a lover who could come only once every four hours or so, another who could come a 50 times in a 2 hour session. Some women like super gentle pressure to start on their clits, and some later want harder pressure, but some don’t. Some want hard pressure from the start. Obviously each lover has a learning curve.
Ive been lucky enough to have been focused on one miraculous lady for the last 20 months. She is divorced, 51, about 5’5”, stacked, slender and insatiable. When I first met her, she had recently left a marriage to a very sexually selfish man.