This story is from several years ago. I found myself interested in men fairly late, but quickly found my affinity for black men shortly afterwards. At the time I was living in California and I decided I would try to find a quick hook up.
Since this was pre-Grindr, CL was the most convenient, and the most worrisome. I wasn’t ready for a gay club or bar so I made a quick ad. Pretty simple posting, just stating a well endowed black man. I wanted someone older, but ended up reading emails with a 25 year old college student. He seemed chill and I dug his pictures so I decided to try it out. We set a time and I headed over. He lived in a decent neighborhood so that put me at ease and I knocked on his door.
He let me in and we exchanged nervous hellos. We went to his backyard and chilled for a bit. He was very good looking and I could see his healthy bulge through his basketball shorts. I finally just blurted out “you ready for me to take care of that for you?” He didn’t say a word and led me to his bedroom.