Back in undergrad, I was an RA for some of the dorms at my college. It was a nice job, flirting with freshman girls, hearing about the best parties at the front desk, and having no roommates in a nice dorm.
One summer, I had just returned from back home and had set up my most recent room. I was fresh out of a relationship and looking to get back to all the ladies I had flirted with but had never had a chance to do much more. The breakup happened in April, and at first I had been down in the dumps, drinking and eating a bit too much. From May to August, I was at the gym nearly everyday and doing boxing training with some friends.
When I arrived back on campus, I was the most ripped I’ve ever been. 6′ 5″ and thick built with muscles and dark skin. I was determined to get over my ex and have a good time while doing it. Back at home, everyone I knew was friends with my ex. Hitting on girls became increasingly difficult as each of them had heard some made up horror story about me. So getting back to school with workmates and new ladies was what kept me motivated.