This was originally a RAOBJ success story that happened last year, but I thought that I’d post it here too:
I’m a 35 year old white guy, found RAOBJ a few months ago, and was very curious about it. I’ve browsed that sub and similar ones, but never had the courage to actually post or send a PM. Then, I said “fuck it” and posted a few times and sent some PMs in this and other subs in my own area (Houston) and a few cities where I traveled. I did get responses from a few…but they never went anywhere.
I was getting discouraged, but wasn’t going to give up…just like a bar or club, you might get rejected or ignored ten times, but the eleventh time is where you hit the jackpot. Still, it was frustrating to see women have hundreds of responses, while us men are usually lucky to have one or two…but it is what it is, right, guys?