After [M]y hotwife-[F]riend’s night out with the girls…

I like to be objectified by women. That’s part of the reason I love being a 3rd for hotwives, and also why I love the idea of stripping for a group of women.

Yes, sex with an emotional connection is great. I do agree. But sex when someone just wants you to get them off is fucking hot too.

That’s the role I played in an ongoing hotwife relationship with a married woman a few years ago. We met on Craigslist when the husband reached out. After a few days of chatting they ended up coming to my hotel and we had an incredible MFM 3some that ended with her cumming on my cock and I came insider her from behind, and he came in her mouth. Yup, all 3 of us came at the same time.

After having such a great time he approached me about playing solo with her, and who would say no to that. So whenever I was in town we would arrange a date. It was purely sex, that all she wanted from me. She’d come to my hotel, and we’d get right down to it. Once I even answered the door naked and hard for her, much to the surprise of the other person walking past (I had told her I was going to do it, and she played a little joke on me by waiting until someone was coming down the hallway too. Timed it perfectly. She got fucked hard as payback that night).

[M]y unexpected tinder hook up in Charlotte NC with a new [F]riend

As you can tell from my username, I travel a lot for work. This gives me the opportunity to experience fun nights with hotwives, and the occasional random hook ups. But I’m lying if I didn’t say there were lots of nights where nothing happens and I end up in bed alone.

This started off as one of those nights. I’d been in Charlotte NC for a couple of days, and had a few matches on tinder, but no promising conversations yet. It was my last night in town and I was resigned to the fact that I’d be going without that night.

I’d crawled into bed around midnight. But around 1am my phone dinged beside me. Usually it turn my ringer off when going to bed but this night I happened to leave it on.

It was a message from a tinder match that hadn’t started a conversation yet.

I don’t remember exactly how the conversation STARTED, but I remember thinking “well, last night in town, and its 1am. Might as well be fairly upfront.” I mean, I have on my profile that I’m from out of town and only there for a few days, and try to be respectful but upfront about what I’m looking for. Some women match me, then unmatch right away but I assume those didn’t read the bio and are looking for something more than fun.

[M]y latest Bumble [F]un…

Early December I was in Kansas for a weekend. Not the sexiest location, but after months of covid and little travel, I was excited to be anywhere. I made sure to book nicer hotels so I could at least enjoy that aspect.

The highlight of the weekend started out with a chat with a married woman at the first hotel bar. We started discussing wine, she mentioned she was chaperoning her daughters soccer team, and then she started dropping comments about her unhappy marriage. She was very cautious about cheating knowing there were other parents from her team around the hotel. She said she couldn’t exchange numbers, so I just gave her my room number and told her to knock on my door if she could get away.

We shared an elevator up for her to check on her daughter, stealing a quick kiss and guiding her hand down to the bulge in my pants… “fuck, it’s halfway down your leg…” she commented, exaggerating to stroke my ego as she stroked the outline of my cock. Before the elevator door opened she looked down at the bulge and said “I’ll try to get away.” I said “ok”, sensing it was a long shot.

[MFM] Giving a hotwife her biggest cock to date, before hubby reclaimed her (with pics)

I love the Hotwife dynamic. I’m never sure how to refer to myself IN that dynamic but I love it.
“Bull” sounds like a strange description for a man whose sole purpose is to give a married woman a new, pleasurable experience, but seems to be the going term. “Guest star” sounds like I’m the focus on attention, when it should be on her.
So I guess I consider myself a “3rd”, despite using “bull” in my username. I didn’t know what else to call myself when I created the name.
The reason I love the dynamic is it makes me feel objectified by the woman – and I love that aspect. I’m not there for love, or emotion. I’m there to make her cum. She might like that I can make her laugh, or find me interesting, or charming, but ultimately I’m there to give her a different experience from her husband. Not “better”, just DIFFERENT in most cases.
And there are two pinnacles of the hotwife experience from my perspective… being someone’s first new man, or being their biggest. I’ve had the opportunity to be both of those, and a couple of times I’ve been both for the same woman – her first, AND her biggest.
This is the story of one hotwife (I’ll call her Marcie).
Marcie’s husband messaged me on kik one day saying that she had loved my pics for a while now, and when they saw I was going to be a couple of hours away they talked about making the drive.
We chatted about our mutual interests and found that we had similar expectations of what we wanted. A respectful night of hot sex with an attractive stranger. We discussed how we loved flirting and building tension over a drink in the hotel bar, then going up to the room. He said he loved to watch and reclaim her after, but that she would want me to take control and he’d stay out of the way. I talked about how I loved to tease, that I loved being the nice guy with the wild side, and that once it was everyone was comfortable I would definitely take control.
As my trip approached, we chatted a couple of times, and that is when Marcie mentioned that she was a little nervous – she’d never had a cock my size. Now, I’m certainly not HUGE, but definitely on the bigger side of average. The large cock head is what usually gets attention.
I reassured Marcie that I didn’t think she’d have any trouble with it, but that I would make sure to warm her up well, and take it slow. And if she had any issues, just let me know. That seemed to put her at ease, but I could tell she was excited to experience her biggest dick to date.
We each booked hotel rooms in the same hotel and when the night arrived, we arranged to meet in the bar. Marcie was slightly older than I was, but in good shape, and an attractive woman. They had played with a 3rd before, but were generally very selective. They wanted someone attractive, in good shape, with a nice cock, that could hold down a normal conversation, but was also respectful of their relationship and hubby.
We ordered our first drinks and settled into a nice conversation. I could tell Marcie was nervous, but I could also tell is was just EXCITEMENT, not doubt. We started to talk about our experiences, and were generally enjoying ourselves. I tested the water with a hand on her leg, and she shifted a little closer to me. Minutes later her hand was on my leg too.
After a couple of drinks it seemed to be time… I asked them if they would like to come up to my room. Marcie agreed. Hubby excused himself to use the restroom, and I decided this was my first chance to tease her. I asked if she was still nervous about my size, and she said “just a little, but I know I’ll be fine.” I reassured her I would take care of her. She smiled. I asked if she was curious about it. She smiled and nodded. I stood up and moved to stand beside her seated at a high top in the bar. As discreetly as possible I guided her hand to the bulge in my pants. She ran her and over my cock and muttered “fuck, that feels thick”. I smiled and let her explore.
When hubby returned we all stood and began to walk to the elevator. Once inside I leaned Marcie back to the wall, and we kissed. Hubby watched as our hands started to explore each others bodies slowly.
The elevator door opened and we walked to my room. Once inside I turned Marcie to face me and we resumed our kiss. I slowly started to caress her back and ass, before lifting her shirt up over her head, revealing a blue bra. My hands cupped her breasts, and I turned her away from me. She reached back to run her hands over my cock as I massaged her tits. I undid her pants, and lowered them to the floor.
I then whispered in her ear “I want you on your knees”. She slowly turned to face me, then dropping to her knees and she took my belt in her hands. Slowly undoing my belt, then the buttons of my pants, then running them down my hips. Hubby was around us taking pics and videos but I was lost in her. As I stepped out of my jeans, she massaged the bulge in my shorts, then hooked her fingers in the waistband and slowly lowered them as well. My cock sprang out, getting a smile and look of desire from Marcie.
“Exactly as advertised” was all she said as she took hold of my shaft and wrapped her mouth around the thick head of my cock.
I remember savouring that moment. There are several little moments in being with a new woman that as so hot to me, and watching her take me in her mouth is definitely one of them. Despite being nervous about my size, Marcie did an amazing job of taking most of my 7-8 inches, as I took her hair and pulled it back out of her face to be able to admire the view. Then I leaned forward and removed her bra and sat back on the edge of the bed. [https://imgur.com/hEWl7Az](https://imgur.com/hEWl7Az)
After a couple of minutes of Marcie sucking my hard cock, I wanted more. I stood her up and lay her on the bed. Then came another of my favourite moments – removing a woman’s panties. This always feels like the subtle moment that confirms what is going to happen later – taking off a woman’s panties is the last signal that says “I’m eventually going to fuck you…”.
But first I had work to do. It just happens to work I love. I teased my tongue and kisses down her stomach, and up the insides of her thighs, then teased her with my breath around her wetness, before slowly starting to lick her pussy. I spread her lips, and found the smooth wetness inside with my tongue, then followed it up to her clit, which I flicked gently causing her to squirm under me. [https://imgur.com/5eUE6vA](https://imgur.com/5eUE6vA) It wasn’t long before I was licking two fingers before sliding them into her as I teased her pussy with my tongue. I could tell Marcie was about to cum, but was pleasantly surprised when she actually squirted a little bit as well.
Now was the time. I needed to fuck her. I needed to be inside her and make her mine for the moment, before giving her back to hubby. I stood up and and took my cock in my hand, lining it up with her pussy. Then I teased the head of my cock against her pussy before pushing it inside her. She put her arms up over her head and arched her back and I slowly pushed my cock into her warm pussy.
I watched her reaction carefully but only saw the telltale signs of satisfaction as I pushed the biggest cock she’d had into her. [https://imgur.com/a/2NdCPYm](https://imgur.com/a/2NdCPYm) She let out a deep moan, then threw her head back on the bed, grabbing her own legs and spreading them so I had access to get as deep as possible.
We settled into a rhythm before I moved her legs up over my shoulders and started to fuck a little bit harder. Then I pushed her up and the bed and crawled on top of her missionary, leaning in to kiss her as we thrusted back against each other.
Hubby was taking pictures all the while. And after a couple of minutes we switched up for Marcie to climb on top. I remember cupping her tits and she started to ride me, then moving one hand to her shoulder and another to the hair on the back of her head to pull her down to meet my thrusts upward.
Marcie was riding me hard, maybe even harder than I would have wanted. I knew if she continued this pace I wouldn’t be able to last.
I warned her that she was getting me close. She kept riding me, looking me in the eye before saying “cum inside me.”
There isn’t a lot a man can do at that point. Once a gorgeous naked woman tells you she wants your cum, its almost impossible not to give it to her. My cock throbbed, and I unleashed multiple hard shots inside her married pussy. She smiled in a way that showed she was quite proud of herself, and continued to gently ride me as my cock softened and slipped out of her.
She crawled off me as her hubby stood. I hadn’t realized he had undressed as we fucked, and now he was crawling up on the bed behind her to reclaim his wife.
He told her to clean my cock with her mouth as he started to fuck her from behind. This was animalistic for him, as he fucked her hard while my cock was in her mouth. He lasted a couple of minutes before cumming inside her as well.
We’ve stayed in contact, and plan to meet up again. This time will be solo, her and I, sending videos back to hubby.

I stayed hard with [M}y HOTWIFE [F]riend and came insider her twice in a row, while hubby listened in on the phone.

I’ve written a few times about a hotwife that I had when I worked regularly in Ohio. She was new to the lifestyle, I was her first bull and we had a great time in front of hubby the first time we played, so hubby let her come visit solo after that.

He just had one rule… I was to call him as she knocked on my hotel door, and put my phone on speaker facedown beside the bed so he could listen in without her knowing. At first I was hesitant to agree to it, but as she and I played more often I learned that they were completely honest with each other otherwise, and she was sharing all the details with him when she got home. See, I would obviously know what we had done, he had listened in on what had happened, and then the next day he would text me with what she was telling him, and she was telling him everything. So I felt like the phone was just a fun little addition for him that I could definitely live with.

Before there was reddit, and before I knew what HOTWIVES were… [MFM]

If you are my age (46) or older you likely remember the version of reddit before the internet – TELEPERSONALS.

You created what was basically a voicemail message about yourself, and could call into a number, listen to others messages, send messages back and forth, and eventually talk live.

I had a profile on one of these systems in my hometown back in my early 20s. I had no game with women in clubs, but for some reason I did well over the phone.

One day, I got a message from a couple (looking back they were likely in their 40s, but I don’t remember that being discussed) that were looking for a younger man. They made it clear that they weren’t willing to go all the way, but they wanted a young man to come watch them and see how far she was comfortable going.

It was all arranged very quickly, and an hour later I was driving to their house to meet. I was pretty inexperienced sexually (I think that was part of my appeal to her) and VERY nervous.

46 [M]y HOTWIFE [F]riend came to visit my hotel room after a night out with the girls

A couple of years ago I had an ongoing Hotwife situation with a woman in Ohio, where I travelled regularly for work. Our first time together was her first Hotwife experience and a MFM with hubby. Or at least it ended that way… in the beginning he just watched her and I before joining at the end.
But since she had so much fun he agreed to let her come visit me solo after that, with one condition she never knew about – I was to call him just as she knocked on the door, put the phone face down on the nightstand, and he would listen in as we fucked. While I was apprehensive at first I soon learned that they were sharing everything with eachother and kept no secrets, so I’m sure if he told her he was doing this it would have been fine with her.

But one night she was planning to go out with her girlfriends for night of dancing and flirting. None of her friends knew she was in the lifestyle, so she couldn’t take anything too far at the club, but she thought it would be fun to flirt with guys at the club with her friends, not take that too far so she looked like the good girl in front of the friends, leave the club to come to my hotel and fuck me, then go home to hubby after that. Hubby loved the idea too.

I ca[M]e inside a HOTWI[F]E, as she came on my cock, and her husband came in her mouth.

I was working in Ohio regularly though I didn’t live there. This was pre-Tinder, so I was on craigslist, which I’d never had any success with. I posted a picture similar to the ones I now post on Reddit, fully naked, thick cock being shown off. What can I say, I’m proud of my dick.

I got a message from a man saying that his wife would love to fuck me, that they’d discussed her being a hotwife for a while, and she was now ready to take the plunge, but was very shy and nervous. He happened to be out of town and she wanted him to be there for the first time, but he suggested that I start texting with her and if things go will we could all meet up in a couple of days when he was back in town.

So she and I started texting, talking politely but with a flirty tone at first, but quickly becoming quite sexual. I asked how long they’d been discussing the lifestyle, what she wanted out of it, and just generally getting to know what we each like and want.

[MFM] My first hotwife

This was back when Craigslist was a thing. I was travelling a lot for work, there was no tinder yet, and I was in an area where there weren’t a lot of bar options. So I posted an ad on craigslist.

At this point I didn’t know what Hotwifing was. I knew of cuckolding, but that was it. A man replied to my ad saying he wanted to watch his wife get fucked by a large cock (I’m 7-8inches, but apparently large to him).

He mentioned that they had never done this before, and that he was out of town, but that his wife was very nervous and it might be fun for her and I to text to get to know each other until he was back in town.

I agreed and passed him my kik or phone number, I can’t even remember which now. A couple hours later I got a message from her. I was laying in bed naked already, and apparently so was she. We did the typical chat to get to know each other. “Who brought up the idea of hotwifing? what are you looking for? what are you into?”… that kind of stuff.

[mf] she left her date to come fuck me in my hotel

A few years ago I was travelling a lot for work, and was going to the same location over and over. I ended up matching on tinder with a recently divorced woman that just wanted fun. She was open about the fact that she was going to be dating several men, and she didn’t mind that I was going to be in and out of town regularly.

Our first date was hot. We met for a drink, agreed to go back to my hotel before we finished the second drink, and made out and explored each others bodies against my car in the parking garage. As one point in lifted her skirt and teased her clit as she leaned back against the side of my car. Her hand explored my bulge, and I lowered my fly to let her explore further. She pulled me out (no underwear for me…) and whispered in my ear, “fuck, your cock is perfect”

We quickly got into my car and I started the drive back to the hotel as she wrapped her hand around my hard dick to tease me. At stop lights she would spread her legs and I would rub her pussy until the light changed.