I’ve always had a bit of a ddlg kink, and I’ve always generally been into older/bearded men, but I never really had time to explore it. I was either being watched by my parents or I’d be seeing vanilla but satisfying partners.
I met up with a guy I met on Tinder who was almost ten years older than me, lean, strong, and very dominant. I originally met up with him for a quickie but it ended up becoming longer term. We met up for the first time, and I let him fuck me raw. He would get me soaking wet before he’d even stick his huge cock in me, which honestly was necessary because to this day I’ve never taken anything so large in my life. We had spoken a little before hand about safe words and boundaries, I told him I was free use and that I rarely used my safeword.
Typically when I tell guys I’m seeing that I’m freeuse and my boundaries are very few, they tend to still be very gentle or vanilla with me, which I appreciate but the word “freeuse” isn’t usually taken seriously.