The summer after my freshman year of college was a formative year in my life.
In high school I played baseball, did pretty well in class, and was half-way decent looking. I was a big guy, a little over 6’ tall and about 175 pounds, and kind of looked “country strong”. I had a lot of friends, but since I grew up in a house full of brothers, I was always a bit shy around girls. So, I made it through high school without so much as a French kiss from a girl.
I went away for college my first year, and since my work-study job was working at the gym, I spent a lot of time lifting weights, rowing on the ergometer, riding the stationary bike, etc., so when I finished my freshman year I had pretty much transformed my body. However, while I had gathered a few coed admirers, and dated a few girls, by the end of my freshman year I was still a virgin.