Author: oralchef

[FFM] Hottub fun last night

A friend of my wife and I is housesitting at the moment, and the place has a pool and hottub. Last night, we went over for dinner and the three of us wound up in the hottub afterwards. My wife and I didn’t have bathing suits, so we were naked. The friend, a short athletic vietnamese woman was in a one piece bathing suit.
She and the wife were talking about sexual wants and desires, and the friend asked me what i want. I said “nothing abstract. I just want you to kiss me.” She leaned in and kissed me, which got the wife going. Next thing i know, I am making out with the friend while the wife is teasing my suddenly very hard cock with her hands under the water.

After a couple minutes of this, I wound up sitting on the top step (to give my wife access to suck my cock), friend basically holding me down aggressively kissing me while my wife blows me. They took a break to make out with each other sitting on top of me, then went back to me making out with the friend while my wife sucked me to completion. Read more »

Teaching my partner to orgasm from verbal command [MF]

I know this sounds ridiculous, but it is 100% real. Conditioned response is an amazing thing.

I have been very interested in the topic of orgasm control and verbal triggers for many years, but never had the right partner to pursue it with. That changed when I met my current long-term partner about 6 years ago. She seemed like a great candidate for this kind of training, as from day one, she was extremely multi-orgasmic, and seemed to respond to my every physical trigger and attempt. Right away, I could push all of her buttons, at will, and make her cum as often and as much as I wanted. We also have a very solid Ds relationship, with her being extremely submissive to me, sexually.

The idea was to train her to orgasm from a verbal command alone, with no physical stimulation required, and ultimately, no warning or prior arousal required. This is based on conditioned response (think Pavlov’s dogs), not hypnosis. When she and I originally discussed this training, we didn’t really know what to expect. We figured, best case, it would take several months to get good at it, and weren’t entirely convinced that it was really possible. Read more »