I don't normally do this, being so specific about a singular person. I just had a session with someone I genuinely care about and respect. And at this point there isn't much more for me to learn about her. I know all the secrets, where all the bodies are buried, if you will.
When we first started she thought there were pieces of her I couldn't handle. "Forget it, it's not important," rings in my ear. No Dom should ever allow this kind of speak. "Excuse me? Who the fuck do you think you are telling me what's important and what's not?" Here is the rule. If I wanted someone different from you I'd be with someone different. "But, daddy… my feelings make no sense and I don't want to upset you." And in that moment we come to the crux of the problem. Her whole life she's been lied to, told she makes no sense and her emotions were stupid. So when I say, be you and no one else, she is still that puppy cowering, expecting to get kicked.