[FM] I am free now

Longtime lurker, now with my own stories :)
This happened two months ago.
I’m feeling like it was a turning point for my sexuality further freeing me of the shackles that I and society put on me. You might ask yourself what could be so monumental that it frees someone who already believed to be free?
To say it bluntly, I rode her.

And who is she you might ask?
Her name is Paula, she is 25 and bright as hell. I met her at university when I explained to friends of mine what polyamory is all about. She just chipped in on the topic and invited me to a party the next Friday. Would you have gone? I never did. I thought it was just a friendly invite meaning nothing. Much later I found out that she actually was a little upset that I didn’t show up. Forward half a year and some messages later, she was watching me and a female partner of mine love each other. How that happened is a story for another day.