This turned out longer than I imagined, but I hope you find it worth it!
My wife and I have been married for 6 years now. I'm J, she's M. Our sex life was good, but after a miscarriage and learning that we can't have kids, the spark went out. We still loved each other, more than ever, but our sexual intimacy was gone. It's not just her, my libido was shot too. We both went to see therapists, and on their recommendation, went to see a sex therapist. Her suggestion was to do things we didn't do before. As an exercise, she asked us both to read or watch erotica (we're both writers and read a lot). We started with fiction and eventually found this subreddit. Knowing the stories are true here helps us, so thank you to everyone who shared. I know it's just fun for some, but for us, it's more than fun, it's helping our marriage :) To those who will ask: Yes, M reads gonewildstories and this story is with her consent.