I approached my cousin again in March this year after our sexual endeavour 9 years prior. I’m now 27 and he’s 46. I sent him an innocent message and put at the end, “I still think about you sometimes, not always appropriately” and a wink face.
It was a day or so before he replied. When he did, he put at the end, “It was crazy! Hard to believe it’s been about 9 years”. He hadn’t given me much back but he at least acknowledged it. I replied saying, “Are you seeing anyone now? Well either way, I’d love to fuck you again so if you ever wanna have another sneaky shag, send me a message and I could drive over” and I sent him a topless photo where I’m on my knees.
He responded and wanted to move it over to WhatsApp. He was messaging me but was very hesitant, he said he wanted to and basically his mind was telling him no but everything else was telling him yes. It went quiet so a few days later I sent him another naughty photo to which he replied, “I was trying to forget about your proposal God damn!” I asked why he was trying to forget and told him I could send him many more photos if he wanted. He asked me to send more so I sent about 4 more.