I was honestly dreading it. My extremely pretty girlfriend of almost three years is a very kinetic person. She’s the kind of girl who will touch guys arms when she’s talking to them, hugs everybody, that kind of thing. She’s also very open and adventurous sexually, and we had a spontaneous threesome with another girl earlier this year (which was amazing).
We are in a committed relationship though, so we had a long talk the next day. We have friends that are non-monogomous or poly or whatever, so it had come up in conversation before. We never thought our relationship would be open, but suddenly it had been. In the moment she was fine, but the next day she was a little jealous and wanted to talk about it. And somewhere in there, letting her do something with another guy got mentioned, and I for some reason said “We could try it sometime, why not?” to make her feel better.
I completely regretted this. It’s not like she was actively looking for a guy. But since I’d kind of given her the option I started getting jealous when guys would hit on her. She’s always got lots of male attention–she’s got a beautiful body and she’s a flirt. But she’s very loyal to me and would never cheat. Now she had the option. I started picturing her having sex with another guy and I hated it.