[F] 35 – My adventure in Smashville [cheating]

Since the mods of /r/dirtyr4r decided to remove this, I figured I would copy and paste here for those seeking it.

I have good news dear reader about the lovely city called Nashville – except perhaps for you readers of my [failure]( https://old.reddit.com/r/dirtyr4r/comments/e91msu/35_f4m_nashville_exceed_my_expectations_failure/) post – about 60 and counting – who wanted to offer your services to make things better. Apologies I don’t have the desire to meet you all, as many are very nice PMs, but I have found one that really works – I will try, as before, to respond to every one of you and thank you for the nice words (and f**k you to the few judgy pricks that sent nasty PMs :P ).

Yes, this is good news. I am breaking this post into two sections called THE BACKGROUND and THE GOOD BITS. I tend to write novels and I want to make sure those of you that want the sex can get to it quickly. Scroll down vvvv.

THE BACKGROUND

After Tuesday’s fiasco, I texted David, not his real name, saying I was having second thoughts. I relayed the story to him and we ultimately talked on the phone. He asked if I wanted to talk to his wife, as she had had bad experiences, as well – open relationship, not trying to get a threesome or anything. After talking to her, I felt better. But still being far more careful.

I decided to Uber over to Southern Grist instead of meeting him there, so I had a clean exit if I felt I needed to jet. When I arrived, he was standing in the door and came out and walked me in. Very much a gentleman.

David is 5’10” and a bit of a dad bod. I think a lot of women might find him cute, but some might look away from the belly, which he is working on. Infectious smile and full of positivity and life. And an ability to make nervousness melt away. It was comforting, but also put my guard up a bit at first – most likely going back to Tuesday night.

He ordered two flights, one which he felt would fit the types I said I liked and another to expand my palette a bit, as he said. I was impressed with the selection. For those unfamiliar, they seem to be heavier on the sours and NEIPAs than anything, but a few collaborations that were dark and tasty, and an Imperial IPA with coconut. I love it when a brewery takes some chances and wins.

Then we talked. We talked about our lives, our work, our children, and even sex. But the flow between subjects was natural and any sex talk felt like part of the conversation, not contrived. I was very curious about his open relationship and how it was working out. And he was very open and honest the entire time, which was extremely refreshing. He also asked me questions about things other than sex and had a true interest in me, as a person, not as a set of body parts.

An aside – if you really want to get a woman wet and wanting you, dick pictures and dirty talk are no substitute for complements and showing genuine interest. Sure, some of us are size queens – not me – but all of us want to know you really like us. Consider this a public service announcement.

As for the sexual parts of the conversation – for those titillated by this – it dealt primarily with our likes and dislikes. I really, really like blowjobs. He really, really likes eating pussy. I also talked about my inability to have an orgasm with a partner. “Challenge accepted,” he said.

Go forward three hours. OMG, we talked for three hours and it seemed like minutes. I wanted to know more, but also wanted to kiss him and touch him and … okay, maybe I need to get the rest of the background finished and get to THE GOOD BITS.

When we got in the car, he kissed me. Completely different experience from night one. We made out for a bit before going. When he stopped kissing me, my lips were wanting more. Drove back to my hotel, kissed a bit more in the car, and then walked up to the room. Those of you that stuck with this portion of the show, thank you.

In the room, he kissed me again and I could feel tingles all the way down my body. It was sensual and romantic and made me want him more. He slowly stripped off my clothing, paying attention to my neck, hitting those spots that sends shocks all the way down my spine. He stopped for a second, reached into his pants pocket, and pulled out a couple of condoms, placing them on the bedside table before we laid down. Already a plus from the night before.

THE GOOD BITS

Completely naked, he and I laid on the bed and made out. He ran his fingers down my back and caused more shivers. As we kissed, he slide a finger inside me and I felt a tiny surge. Not an orgasm, but definitely nerves lighting up. I back off from kissing and made my way down his body. He tried pulling me back up, but I told him I wanted him to rate my skills.

His cock was already rock hard, which was a great sign after the previous night. About average length, but bigger around. I softly caressed his balls with my tongue and teased him by licking up and down the shaft. I then took him all the way in where his cock hit the back of my throat. I changed things up until I got a big moan and continued working him until he came. Before we met, he told me he usually took a long time to come and would not be insulted if I gave up. But cumming was no problem. I did not expect the amount, however. I ended up with some of it gushing out around his cock. I had no issue cleaning it up. I won my challenge. :D

We made out a bit more and he started working his way down my body. I shivered when he sucked on my nipples, so he stuck around there. I have always had sensitive nipples and the feeling was incredible. Did not have an orgasm, but I think I might possibly could at some time – ignore the funky grammar.

When he finally got down to my pussy, I just wanted him to jump right in. But he decided teasing me was the best way to go. He would lick around the area where my thigh met my outer lip and then kiss me on different spots. He would then move to the other side. It was driving me absolutely crazy. After a bit, he moved in and started lightly licking up my outer lips, barely touching my inner labia. The sensation was incredible. Not enough to cum, but building some intense sensations. Moving to my inner lips, he lightly licked up to my clit and then around it, across the hood. I am not sure how long this went on, but I finally tried to push his head where he was on my clit and he pulled back and said “not yet”.

Shivers. A few more minutes and he put one finger in my pussy and started massaging the wall, going in and out across my g-spot, while licking across the hood of my clit. I could feel my pussy getting sopping wet and I just wanted him to get to the good part. When he finally got to my clit, it only took a few seconds before I had my first orgasm. This followed by a few.

I said he won his challenge and he slid up my body, kissed me, and said “not yet.” Already a good night, but he was promising more? Definite intrigue.

We talked for a bit and he slowly caressed me on my back and up and down my sides. He focused on covering as much skin as possible and my entire body was tingling. A bit later, I felt him rising up again and I asked if he wanted me to put on the condom with my mouth. He said he had never had that done, so I reach over and put one on him.

After he was properly dressed, he rolled me on my back and slid his cock in. I felt a bit stretched, but in a good way. He started slowly thrusting and after a short time, also rubbed my clit. The position was wonderful and I felt his cock hitting where his finger was just before I came while he ate me out. The soft sensation on top of my clit was amplifying the feelings and I came again. The oral orgasms were great, but this was intense. I am sure I had the strangest look on my face as I came and he got a sly smile and told me he felt me pulsing.

Challenge won? He said “maybe”. He moved his hand off my clit and continued thrusting his cock against my g-spot and I orgasmed again. A bit stronger. A few more and then I had an orgasm so strong I almost pushed him out.

Challenge won? “Maybe,” he said with a smile. After that, he rolled me on top. In the past, this position has always been more about the guy than me, but the state I was in I was orgasming again fairly quick. And his smile as I lost control made me feel really good about meeting with David. We moved to my favorite position, doggy style, and I could feel his cock all the way in my pussy. He slap my ass just enough for a slight sting and the best description is “my pussy lost control”. I think I squirted a bit. I say I think because I did find a wet spot on the bed, but I don’t remember feeling it because every nerve in my crotch was on fire. My thighs were shaking and I asked if he was close. Not because I wanted it to end, but I did not know if I could take any more. About a minute later he came and feeling his cock pulsing inside of me caused me to have another huge orgasm. I lay down on the bed spent.

Challenge won? He finally said, “I think so”. “Smart ass,” I replied with a smile.

So here is the situation at this point. I have only had a few orgasms with partners in my entire life. I figured it was just the way I was wired. Last night, I had more than all my other partners combined. As we cuddled and kissed, felt like a kid leaving Disney World after the fireworks, knowing the night was coming to an end. I offered to walk him down to his car, but he said I should get some rest. A minute later I texted and asked if he had time tonight – Thursday – and he said he had to talk to his wife and make sure she did not need anything. If you missed it, he is in an open relationship, so not as weird as that just sounded when I wrote it. He got back to me and said he could, but it would have to be a bit later.

AFTERMATH

As I write this, I am still a bit giddy. After he left last light, I got a hot shower and got in bed. My pussy was still sensitive and I was able to get off again without toys. Another rare occasion. I have always had a high libido and love sex, even when I don’t orgasm, but I hope this newly found skill is here to stay.

It is now morning and I am still tingling a bit. I started thinking about last night and I swear I had an orgasm just thinking about it. I did a search and found [this]( https://laopinion.com/2014/07/15/the-mental-orgasm-climax-without-being-touched/).

So looking forward to tonight. Thank you /u/trravelingdiver69. To think, I almost passed you by and would have never known what I missed. For those following the chronicles, I am going to move to Nashville. Yay! Husband is on board with the move and I think I found a house that will work. And, no, David, I did not choose something within a few miles of where you live on purpose, it is just a fortunate coincidence. :P

Enough of a novel for now. I have to finish lunch and then get the details on the relo package. Thank you all for sticking with me through this.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/e9tbln/f_35_my_adventure_in_smashville_cheating