First off, older men…can’t get enough of them. I am so surprised to find that many of them on Tinder and Bumble. You’d think you’d have settled with a wife by then. Apparently not.
I met a gentlemen who 44 years old on Bumble. We flirted and sexted for a while and when things were starting to heat we decided to book a hotel room and do the deed. He booked a really expensive hotel for the night, took me out to dinner in a very fancy restaurant and it made me feel really good. Things were starting to heat up a lot in the car when we were making out. He slipped his fingers under my dress and I was soaking. I sucked his dick in the sloppiest way a thirsty whore could.
When we reached the hotel room, we wasted no time. We undressed each other and were ravaging each inch of naked skin we could find. We were also very very very drunk.His dick transported me into another world. A world filled with so many orgasms I lost count. Older men are too experienced. They know how to please a woman. I squirted so many times. Like the good little whore I am, I let him fill me. He took it so deep inside I think I felt it in my gut. The fluid started oozing out of my vagina. It was easily the best sex I have had.
While we were waiting for him to go another round, we started talking. That’s when things went south. Never talk to the guy who fucked. It never ends well.He admitted to me that he was married with two little kids. I got so mad that I was ready to leave. I felt like cheap dirty whore he used to cheat on his wife. But he calmed me down and explained that he was in the middle of a divorce with her and they were signing the papers very soon. The marriage had ended a long time ago and that it was not legally bound yet. That made sense, but cheating is still cheating.
I should’ve left. Instead he got to use my body a few more times that night and he gave me money for the cab in the morning and left for work. And I’m seeing him again this Sunday.Am I breaking enabling cheating here? Should I stop? He’s SOOOO good at sex.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/xa0ptj/f22_did_i_help_this_man_cheat_on_his_wife_and
You could do one of two things:
1. If you feel overwhelming guilt at the prospect of aiding and abetting infidelity, then you could ask him to reach out to you once his divorce has been finalized. At that time, the guilt wouldn’t likely be an issue, as you stopped to ask whether or not this is ethical and chose not to continue until the issues were resolved.
2. If you believe he’s telling the truth about the inevitable end to his marriage, and that doesn’t make you feel guilty, then you could continue the fling until you or he is satisfied.
Personally, I wouldn’t think him worth chasing in the relationship department, even if he’s telling the truth; it would concern me that he could be lying, since men have portrayed this behavior ad-naseum.
The “other” woman is never the reason for the breakup.
Male here.
From your side i sense you value the quality of the sex and to a lesser degree, his finantial stability.
From his side i sense a good deal of sexual unfulfillment and a desire to impress and conquer you.
These real thing that stands out is that How he feels about you.
He took time, money and effort to get inside you.
And then just after all of that he tells you about his kids and wife.
Doesnt make sense If he wants another go at your love tunnels using the i am not married disguise.
Doesnt make sense If he wants to be be your sugar daddy. He doesnt need to expose himself that much.
I think he is either self delusional about you, or worst, lost his mind in passion.
You are 22. You have a whole dick buffet at your disposal,and he teached you some tricks about your body that you ask other men to apply.
There is quite a good chance he isnt happy with his marriage.
There is a non zero chance he developed feelings for you.
But being in love with a married man isnt the best solution.
Either setup a sugar daddy agreement or ask your self If you are in love with anything on him besides his dick.
I fell in love outside my marriage twice.
First time i did what he did and asked her to be my wife after my divorce. We cried a river and i still think about her every single day wondering If in another multiverse we are together .
Second time i met this amazing woman on a business trip when my marriage was in a hyatus.. Pretty much everything on her was perfect: she worked on my field, her pussy was tight , her daugther was charming and she had a impressive income for someone ao young and beautiful. My mistake was that after each sex Marathon we stayed in bed with our fingers crossed looking each in the eye. She blocked me weeks later and got married months after. I sometimes say her name out loud, and to this day, she was the only woman whose lips gave me a full orgasm.
So married man can and very often do, fall in love.
Life isnt fair.