[MF] First months of orgasm denial for my girlfriend

My (M) partner (F) shared early on in our relationship her fantasy of orgasm denial.
In the beginning it was tricky, it was hard for me to really feel that I was pleasing her when she was not allowed to orgasm, especially since she always took such great care of me. But overtime I have finally understood that she enjoyed being edged and denied far more than when she was allowed to orgasm. She explained it as offering her most inner desire and need to me, to do with as I please. In a sense it’s the most romantic gift that I can be given, to be in full control of her pleasure.

We started slow, in the beginning I edged and denied her just for a few hours. We gradually increased the time she was denied from hours to days. I have learned that something seems to change when you get denied for days, the lust and frustration becomes so intense that her sexual energy increase a lot. She wants much more attention and teasing and edging, and I’m more than happy to give it to her. Every day I make sure to take time to give her tasks to do, and also to tease and edge her before I leave for work and every night before bed. I gently massage her body and pay a lot of attention to all her sensitive areas, such as nipples and inner thighs. I tell her to spread her legs and softly finger her but without paying any attention to her clit. By now it is throbbing and aching, almost screaming at me for attention. I often ask her to describe in detail what she is feeling, how the frustration is spreading through her body. I make sure to tell her how needy she is, and remind her how with just a few touches to her throbbing clit would make the frustration go away. I tell her how I want to keep her in this state, a sexually frustrated and aching wet mess. Sometimes I masturbate in front of her, I tell her to describe in detail the frustration she is feeling as I describe the pleasure of being touched and I make sure she watches closely when I orgasm. I want her to smell the intoxicating fumes of sex, to taste her wetness and my cum, just to trigger and make her even more aching and needy. I tell her to open her mouth as I slide my fingers coated in both our juices up and down her tongue.

Lately we have incorporated more tasks and games into our denial play. For me humiliation is quite a big, big turn on, and also anal. So lately we have been exploring her only being allowed any type of vaginal penetration when her anal is being stimulated. It can be me simply playing with her anal with my tongue, fingers or cock, or it can be wearing toys and plugs. Slowly she has started to associate more and more anal play with sex and stimulation and can come to me, presenting anal toys or begging for me to play with her in order for her to get any type of pleasure. I make her spread her labia and her legs so she can not cheat to feel any stimulation to her clit when I finger her and play with her ass.

I’m looking forward to see where we will be in a few months, and how long she will be able to stay denied.

Thank you for reading! I have a lot of more stories of our edging and denial games incorporating humiliation, anal or just day to day activities. Let me know if there is anything you want to hear more about.

And a final question, our current problem is that I will have to travel to another continent for work for 3 months. And I am not sure how to continue with our edging and denial play when I am away, so if you have any experience or tips on this, please let me know!

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/wj2ohg/mf_first_months_of_orgasm_denial_for_my_girlfriend